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Sirach

Ben Sira, Ecclesiasticus

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Chapter 26

1 Happy is the husband of a good wife. The number of his days will be doubled. 2 A faithful wife gives joy to her husband. He will fulfill his years in peace. 3 A good wife is a great gift. She will be given to those who fear the Lord.⁠ 4 Whether a man is rich or poor, a good heart makes a cheerful face at all times. 5 Of three things my heart was afraid, and concerning the fourth kind I made supplication: The slander of a city, the assembly of a mob, and a false accusation. All these are more grievous than death. 6 A grief of heart and sorrow is a woman who is jealous of another woman. Her tongue-lashing makes it known to all. 7 A wicked woman is like a chafing yoke. He who takes hold of her is like one who grasps a scorpion. 8 A drunken woman causes great wrath. She will not cover her own shame.⁠ 9 The fornication of a woman is in the lifting up of her eyes; it will be known by her eyelids.⁠ 10 Keep strict watch on a headstrong daughter, lest she find liberty for herself, and use it. 11 Watch out for an impudent eye, and don’t be surprised if it sins against you. 12 She will open her mouth like a thirsty traveller, and drink from every water that is near. She will sit down at every post, and open her quiver to any arrow. 13 The grace of a wife will delight her husband. Her knowledge will strengthen his bones. 14 A silent woman is a gift of the Lord. There is nothing worth so much as a well-instructed soul. 15 A modest woman is grace upon grace. There are no scales that can weigh the value of a self-controlled soul. 16 As the sun when it arises in the highest places of the Lord, so is the beauty of a good wife in her well-organized home. 17 As the lamp that shines upon the holy lampstand, so is the beauty of the face on a well-proportioned body. 18 As the golden pillars are upon a base of silver, so are beautiful feet with the breasts of one who is steadfast.

Honesty and the Testing of Friendship

28 For two things my heart is grieved, and for the third anger comes upon me: a warrior who suffers for poverty, men of understanding who are counted as garbage, and one who turns back from righteousness to sin— the Lord will prepare him for the sword! 29 It is difficult for a merchant to keep himself from wrong doing, and for a retailer to be acquitted of sin.⁠

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Compare Proverbs 18:22 and Sirach 26:3

Hebrew Bible · Deuterocanon

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Summary

The Hebrew version of Proverbs 18 says finding a wife a gift of God’s favor. Sirach reflects the Greek Septuagint translation that specifies a good wife, given to the man who fears God.

Passages

Proverbs 18:22

Hebrew Bible
20 From the fruit of a person’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied; with the product of his lips he will be satisfied. 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love its use will eat its fruit. 22 The one who has found a wife has found what goodness is and obtained a delightful gift from the Lord. 23 A poor person makes supplications, but a rich man answers harshly. 24 There are companions who harm one another, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
600–201 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Proverbs

Sirach 26:3

Deuterocanon · Ben Sira, Ecclesiasticus
1 Happy is the husband of a good wife. The number of his days will be doubled. 2 A faithful wife gives joy to her husband. He will fulfill his years in peace. 3 A good wife is a great gift. She will be given to those who fear the Lord. 4 Whether a man is rich or poor, a good heart makes a cheerful face at all times. 5 Of three things my heart was afraid, and concerning the fourth kind I made supplication: The slander of a city, the assembly of a mob, and a false accusation. All these are more grievous than death.
195–180 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Sirach

References

... V 3 is important for a proper perspective on Ben Sira’s ideas about the good wife: she is "a generous gift [presumably from God] bestowed on him who fears the Lord." Accordingly, the key to finding a good wife and enjoying a happy marriage is fear of the Lord. Compare Proverbs 18:22; 19:14. Wealth, though it helps, is not necessary in marriage (verse 4a); what is essential is a cheerful (literally, good) heart on the inside and "a smile" on the outside (verse 4b), and these come only when the husband, who is himself God-fearing (verse 3b), has "a good wife" (verse 3a). ...
Patrick W. Skehan and Alexander A. Di Lella, The Wisdom of Ben Sira: A New Translation with Notes, Introduction and Commentary (New York: Doubleday, 1987), 351.

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