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Chapter 18

1 One who has isolated himself seeks his own desires; he rejects all sound judgment. 2 A fool takes no pleasure in understanding but only in disclosing what is on his mind. 3 When a wicked person arrives, contempt shows up with him, and with shame comes a reproach. 4 The words of a person’s mouth are like deep waters, and the fountain of wisdom is like a flowing brook. 5 It is terrible to show partiality to the wicked by depriving a righteous man of justice. 6 The lips of a fool enter into strife, and his mouth invites a flogging. 7 The mouth of a fool is his ruin, and his lips are a snare for his life. 8 The words of a gossip are like choice morsels, and they have gone down into the person’s innermost being. 9 The one who is slack in his work is a brother to one who destroys. 10 The name of the Lord is like a strong tower; the righteous person runs to it and is set safely on high. 11 The wealth of a rich person is like a strong city, and it is like a high wall in his imagination. 12 Before destruction the heart of a person is proud, but humility comes before honor. 13 The one who gives an answer before he listens—that⁠ is his folly and his shame. 14 A person’s spirit sustains him through sickness—but who can bear a crushed spirit? 15 The discerning person acquires knowledge, and the wise person seeks knowledge. 16 A person’s gift makes room for him and leads him before important people. 17 The first to state his case seems right, until his opponent begins to cross-examine him. 18 A toss of a coin ends disputes and settles the issue between strong opponents. 19 A relative offended is harder to reach than a strong city, and disputes are like the barred gates of a fortified citadel. 20 From the fruit of a person’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied; with the product of his lips he will be satisfied. 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue,⁠ and those who love its use will eat its fruit. 22 The one who has found a wife has found what goodness is and obtained a delightful gift from the Lord.⁠ 23 A poor person makes supplications, but a rich man answers harshly.⁠ 24 There are companions who harm one another, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.⁠

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Compare Proverbs 18:22 and Sirach 26:3

Hebrew Bible · Deuterocanon

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Summary

The Hebrew version of Proverbs 18 says finding a wife a gift of God’s favor. Sirach reflects the Greek Septuagint translation that specifies a good wife, given to the man who fears God.

Passages

Proverbs 18:22

Hebrew Bible
20 From the fruit of a person’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied; with the product of his lips he will be satisfied. 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love its use will eat its fruit. 22 The one who has found a wife has found what goodness is and obtained a delightful gift from the Lord. 23 A poor person makes supplications, but a rich man answers harshly. 24 There are companions who harm one another, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
600–201 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Proverbs

Sirach 26:3

Deuterocanon · Ben Sira, Ecclesiasticus
1 Happy is the husband of a good wife. The number of his days will be doubled. 2 A faithful wife gives joy to her husband. He will fulfill his years in peace. 3 A good wife is a great gift. She will be given to those who fear the Lord. 4 Whether a man is rich or poor, a good heart makes a cheerful face at all times. 5 Of three things my heart was afraid, and concerning the fourth kind I made supplication: The slander of a city, the assembly of a mob, and a false accusation. All these are more grievous than death.
195–180 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Sirach

References

... V 3 is important for a proper perspective on Ben Sira’s ideas about the good wife: she is "a generous gift [presumably from God] bestowed on him who fears the Lord." Accordingly, the key to finding a good wife and enjoying a happy marriage is fear of the Lord. Compare Proverbs 18:22; 19:14. Wealth, though it helps, is not necessary in marriage (verse 4a); what is essential is a cheerful (literally, good) heart on the inside and "a smile" on the outside (verse 4b), and these come only when the husband, who is himself God-fearing (verse 3b), has "a good wife" (verse 3a). ...
Patrick W. Skehan and Alexander A. Di Lella, The Wisdom of Ben Sira: A New Translation with Notes, Introduction and Commentary (New York: Doubleday, 1987), 351.

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