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Chapter 6

1 My child, if you have made a pledge for your neighbor, if you have become a guarantor for a stranger, 2 if you have been ensnared by the words you have uttered and have been caught by the words you have spoken, 3 then, my child, do this in order to deliver yourself, because you have fallen into your neighbor’s power:⁠ Go, humble yourself, and appeal firmly to your neighbor. 4 Permit no sleep to your eyes or slumber to your eyelids. 5 Deliver yourself like a gazelle from a snare and like a bird from the trap of the fowler. 6 Go to the ant, you sluggard;⁠ observe her ways and be wise! 7 It has no commander, overseer, or ruler, 8 yet it would prepare its food in the summer; it gathered at the harvest what it will eat. 9 How long, you sluggard, will you lie there? When will you rise from your sleep? 10 A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to relax, 11 and your poverty will come like a robber, and your need like an armed man. 12 A worthless and wicked person walks around saying perverse things;⁠ 13 he winks with his eyes, signals with his feet, and points with his fingers; 14 he plots evil with perverse thoughts in his heart; he spreads contention at all times. 15 Therefore, his disaster will come suddenly; in an instant he will be broken, and there will be no remedy. 16 There are six things that the Lord hates, even seven things that are an abomination to him: 17 haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, 18 a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift to run to evil, 19 a false witness who pours out lies, and a person who spreads discord among family members. 20 My child, guard the commands of your father and do not forsake the instruction of your mother.⁠ 21 Bind them on your heart continually; fasten them around your neck. 22 When you walk about, they will guide you; when you lie down, they will watch over you; when you wake up, they will talk to you.⁠ 23 For the commandments are like a lamp; instruction is like a light,⁠ and rebukes of discipline are like the road leading to life⁠ 24 by keeping you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the loose woman. 25 Do not lust in your heart for her beauty, and do not let her captivate you with her alluring eyes;⁠ 26 for on account of a prostitute one is brought down to a loaf of bread, but the wife of another man preys on your precious life.⁠ 27 Can a man hold fire against his chest without burning his clothes? 28 Can a man walk on hot coals without scorching his feet? 29 So it is with the one who sleeps with his neighbor’s wife; no one who touches her will escape punishment. 30 People do not despise a thief when he steals to fulfill his need when he is hungry.⁠ 31 Yet if he is caught he must repay seven times over; he might even have to give all the wealth of his house. 32 A man who commits adultery with a woman lacks sense; whoever does it destroys his own life.⁠ 33 He will be beaten and despised, and his reproach will not be wiped away; 34 for jealousy kindles a husband’s rage, and he will not show mercy when he takes revenge. 35 He will not consider any compensation; he will not be willing, even if you multiply the compensation.

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Compare Exodus 20:12 and Proverbs 6:20

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Summary

Exodus presents honoring your parents as a direct duty connected to long life in the land, reflecting the firm style of the Torah’s commands. Proverbs reshapes this as practical advice, urging children to listen so they avoid harm.

Passages

Exodus 20:12

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10 but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God; on it you shall not do any work, you, or your son, or your daughter, or your male servant, or your female servant, or your cattle, or the resident foreigner who is in your gates. 11 For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth and the sea and all that is in them, and he rested on the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and set it apart as holy. 12 “Honor your father and your mother, that you may live a long time in the land the Lord your God is giving to you. 13 “You shall not murder. 14 “You shall not commit adultery.
750–400 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Exodus

Proverbs 6:20

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18 a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift to run to evil, 19 a false witness who pours out lies, and a person who spreads discord among family members. 20 My child, guard the commands of your father and do not forsake the instruction of your mother. 21 Bind them on your heart continually; fasten them around your neck. 22 When you walk about, they will guide you; when you lie down, they will watch over you; when you wake up, they will talk to you.
600–201 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Proverbs

References

"... Proverbs 6:16-35 contains parallels with the Shema and the Decalogue, the latter of which is our current focus ... This Decalogical intertext includes counterparts to “honor your father and your mother” (Exodus 20:12; Deuteronomy 5:16; compare Proverbs 6:20), “you shall not commit adultery” (Exodus 20:14; Deuteronomy 5:18; compare Proverbs 6:32), “you shall not steal” (Exodus 20:15; Deuteronomy 5:19; compare Proverbs 6:30–31), and “you shall not covet” (Exodus 20:17; Deuteronomy 5:21; compare Proverbs 6:25). This passage is, however, closer to V’s version than the canonical ones in four distinct ways. First, the word “wealth” appears here in the context of the sin of theft (6:31), unlike the Decalogues of Exodus or Deuteronomy, but precisely as in V (E 3:8) ... Second, the verb חמד here relates specifically to lusting after a person (6:25), rather than asexual coveting. This stands in contrast to the Exodus version, where חמד applies to inanimate objects (Exodus 20:17), but it is in perfect consonance with V ..."
Idan Dershowitz, The Valediction of Moses: A Proto-Biblical Book (Tübingen: Mohr Siebeck, 2021), 81.

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