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Chapter 5

1 My child, be attentive to my wisdom; pay close attention to my understanding, 2 in order to safeguard discretion and that your lips may guard knowledge. 3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,⁠ and her seductive words are smoother than olive oil, 4 but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. 5 Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. 6 Lest she should make level the path leading to life, her paths have wandered, but she is not able to discern it. 7 So now, children, listen to me; do not turn aside from the words I speak. 8 Keep yourself far from her, and do not go near the door of her house, 9 lest you give your vigor to others and your years to a cruel person, 10 lest strangers devour your strength and your labor benefit another man’s house. 11 And at the end of your life you will groan when your flesh and your body are wasted away. 12 And you will say, “How I hated discipline! My heart spurned reproof! 13 For I did not obey my teachers, and I did not heed my instructors. 14 I almost came to complete ruin in the midst of the whole congregation!” 15 Drink water from your own cistern and running water from your own well. 16 Should your springs be dispersed outside, your streams of water in the wide plazas? 17 Let them be for yourself alone and not for strangers with you. 18 May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife you married in your youth—⁠ 19 a loving doe, a graceful deer; may her breasts satisfy you at all times may you be captivated by her love always. 20 But why should you be captivated, my son, by an adulteress, and embrace the bosom of a different woman? 21 For the ways of a person are in front of the Lord’s eyes, and the Lord weighs all that person’s paths. 22 The wicked will be captured by his own iniquities, and he will be held by the cords of his own sin. 23 He will die because there was no discipline; because of the greatness of his folly he will reel.

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Honey as Temptation and Love in Proverbs and Song of Solomon

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Summary

Proverbs 5 and Song of Solomon 4 both use honey as a metaphor for speech and desire, but with opposite meanings. In Proverbs, honeyed lips represent temptation that leads to ruin, while in Song of Solomon they express sweetness and intimacy within love.

Passages

Proverbs 5:3

Hebrew Bible
1 My child, be attentive to my wisdom; pay close attention to my understanding, 2 in order to safeguard discretion and that your lips may guard knowledge. 3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her seductive words are smoother than olive oil, 4 but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. 5 Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave.
600–201 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Proverbs

Song of Solomon 4:11

Hebrew Bible · Song of Songs
9 You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride! You have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace. 10 How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much better is your love than wine; the fragrance of your perfume is better than any spice! 11 Your lips drip sweetness like the honeycomb, my bride; honey and milk are under your tongue. The fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. 12 The Lover to His Beloved: You are a locked garden, my sister, my bride; you are an enclosed spring, a sealed-up fountain. 13 Your shoots are a royal garden full of pomegranates with choice fruits: henna with nard,
300–201 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in the Song of Solomon

References

"... As the favorite sweetening ingredient of most foods, honey became synonymous with sweetness. Thus “honeyed words” could mean eloquence, and the Psalmist could sing, “How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth” (Psalm 119:103). On the other hand, the honey could be tantalizing and dangerous. Proverbs warns that the “lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil” (Proverbs 5:3). Yet, in another place, the wise writer also notes that it is a natural pleasure to enjoy: “Eat honey, my son, for it is good; honey from the comb is sweet to your taste” (Proverbs 24:13). Like all good and natural things, one can indulge it to excess: “If you find honey, eat just enough—too much of it, and you will vomit” (Proverbs 25:27). King Solomon loved the imagery of honey, using it famously in his great wedding song, the Song of Solomon: “I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride; I have gathered my myrrh with my spice. I have eaten my honeycomb and my honey; I have drunk my wine and my milk.” Then he invites the other guests to join him (Song of Solomon 5:1). In fact, his favorite description of his bride is that her “lips drop sweetness as the honeycomb ... milk and honey are under your tongue” (Song of Solomon 4:11) ..."
Nancy M. Tischler, All Things in the Bible (Westport, CT: Greenwood, 2006), 64–65.

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