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Chapter 18

1 One who has isolated himself seeks his own desires; he rejects all sound judgment. 2 A fool takes no pleasure in understanding but only in disclosing what is on his mind. 3 When a wicked person arrives, contempt shows up with him, and with shame comes a reproach. 4 The words of a person’s mouth are like deep waters, and the fountain of wisdom is like a flowing brook. 5 It is terrible to show partiality to the wicked by depriving a righteous man of justice. 6 The lips of a fool enter into strife, and his mouth invites a flogging. 7 The mouth of a fool is his ruin, and his lips are a snare for his life. 8 The words of a gossip are like choice morsels, and they have gone down into the person’s innermost being. 9 The one who is slack in his work is a brother to one who destroys. 10 The name of the Lord is like a strong tower; the righteous person runs to it and is set safely on high. 11 The wealth of a rich person is like a strong city, and it is like a high wall in his imagination. 12 Before destruction the heart of a person is proud, but humility comes before honor. 13 The one who gives an answer before he listens—that⁠ is his folly and his shame. 14 A person’s spirit sustains him through sickness—but who can bear a crushed spirit? 15 The discerning person acquires knowledge, and the wise person seeks knowledge. 16 A person’s gift makes room for him and leads him before important people. 17 The first to state his case seems right, until his opponent begins to cross-examine him. 18 A toss of a coin ends disputes and settles the issue between strong opponents. 19 A relative offended is harder to reach than a strong city, and disputes are like the barred gates of a fortified citadel. 20 From the fruit of a person’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied; with the product of his lips he will be satisfied. 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue,⁠ and those who love its use will eat its fruit. 22 The one who has found a wife has found what goodness is and obtained a delightful gift from the Lord.⁠ 23 A poor person makes supplications, but a rich man answers harshly.⁠ 24 There are companions who harm one another, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.⁠

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Compare Proverbs 18:13 and Sirach 11:8

Hebrew Bible · Deuterocanon

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Summary

Proverbs 18 says that answering before you listen is the mark of a fool. Sirach reshapes that observation into a direct command and adds a second rule against interrupting while another person is still speaking.

Passages

Proverbs 18:13

Hebrew Bible
11 The wealth of a rich person is like a strong city, and it is like a high wall in his imagination. 12 Before destruction the heart of a person is proud, but humility comes before honor. 13 The one who gives an answer before he listens—that is his folly and his shame. 14 A person’s spirit sustains him through sickness—but who can bear a crushed spirit?
600–201 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Proverbs

Sirach 11:8

Deuterocanon · Ben Sira, Ecclesiasticus
6 Many mighty men have been greatly disgraced. Men of renown have been delivered into other men’s hands. 7 Don’t blame before you investigate. Understand first, and then rebuke. 8 Don’t answer before you have heard. Don’t interrupt while someone else is speaking. 9 Don’t argue about a matter that doesn’t concern you. Don’t sit with sinners when they judge. 10 My son, don’t be busy about many matters; for if you meddle much, you will not be unpunished. If you pursue, you will not overtake, and you will not escape by fleeing.
195–180 BCE (scholarly estimate) Read in Sirach

References

... Interrupting another person makes one look like a disgraceful fool. It is wise to listen and think before responding. See the Comments on 10:19; 15:28; and 17:7, and compare Ecclesiastes 5:2, 6. Reusing this verse, Ben Sira cautions, "My son, do not reply before you listen, and do not speak in the middle of (another’s) speech" (11:8). Pirqei Avot 5:7 says: "The wise man . . . does not interrupt his companion’s words." ...
Michael V. Fox, Proverbs 10–31: A New Translation with Introduction and Commentary, AYB 18B (New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, 2009), 643.

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